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September-October
2007
Calendar
of Events
September 14-15,
2007 Practice Weekend, St. Ann
Parish, Doniphan,
NE
September 15,
2007 Secretariat
Meeting, St. Ann
Parish, Doniphan (following Practice
Weekend)
September
20-23, 2007 Men’s
Weekend, St. Ann
Parish, Doniphan,
NE
CANCELLED
September
23,
2007 Men’s
Closing, 5:00pm (4pm Mass)
St. Ann Parish, Doniphan, NE
CANCELLED
September
28-30, 2007 Region VI Spring Encounter
– Kansas City,
KS (Savior of the World)
October 4-7
2007
Women’s
Weekend, St. Ann Parish, Doniphan, NE
October 7, 2007
Women’s Closing, 5:00pm (4pm
Mass) St. Ann Parish, Doniphan, NE
October 27,
2007
Secretariat Meeting, Time / location
will depend on Postcursillo Reunion
November
2-3,
2007 School
of Leaders (quarterly
reunion)-7:30pm
Fri-3pm Sat, (Location
TBA)
postponed till the next week ... see
below
November 9-10,
2007 School
of Leaders (quarterly
reunion)-7:30pm
Fri-3pm Sat, (Sacred Heart, Hebron, NE)
(was incorrectly previously listed as being at Minden)
December 1,
2007 Secretariat
Meeting, 9:30am, Blessed John
XXIII Diocesan Center
January 5, 2008
Secretariat Meeting, 9:30am,
Blessed
John XXIII Diocesan Center
January 11-12,
2008 School
of Leaders (quarterly
reunion)-7:30pm
Fri-3pm Sat, (Location
TBA)
February 8-9,
2008 Practice
Weekend, Location, TBA
(Secretariat meeting to follow)
February
14-17, 2008 Men’s
Weekend, Location, TBA
February
21-24, 2008 Women’s
Weekend, Location, TBA
Palanca is so
very, very
important … it is the backbone of the Cursillo Movement and essential
for
the spiritual success of each Three Day Weekend. Your
spending time with our Lord before the
Blessed Sacrament is the best means of helping the candidates encounter
Him. Please make sure your Ultreya
Center is covering the assigned hours, or contact a neighboring Ultreya
Center
for assistance … He’s counting on YOU!!!

Lift
them up in prayer …
PRAYER/ADORATION
HOURS (by Ultreya Center) for the Fall 2007 Doniphan
Weekends
Thursday, 7:00pm
- Friday, 1:00am David
City/Shelby/Wahoo
Friday,
1:00am - 7:00am
Beatrice/Crete/Hebron
Friday,
7:00am - 1:00pm
Lincoln
Friday,
1:00pm - 7:00pm
Southwestern
Nebraska (McCook/Imperial/Grant)
Friday,
7:00pm - Saturday 1:00am
Nebraska
City/Plattsmouth/Offutt
Saturday,
1:00am - 7:00am
David City/Shelby/Wahoo
Saturday,
7:00am - 1:00pm
Beatrice/Crete/Hebron
Saturday,
1:00pm - 7:00pm
Southwestern Nebraska
(McCook/Imperial/Grant)
Saturday,
7:00pm - Sunday 1:00am Lincoln
Sunday,
1:00am - Sunday, 7:00am
Nebraska
City/Plattsmouth/Offutt
Sunday,
7:00am - 5:00pm
Hastings/Holdrege/Minden (while
others travel)
Men's Weekend
(scheduled for 9/20-23/07) has been Cancelled; Women's Weekend
(10/4-7/07) will be held as scheduled!
Candidates
for Fall Weekends (St.
Ann Parish, Doniphan) -- The
candidates for the Women Cursillo
Weekends in Doniphan (Oct. 4-7, 2007)
as of 10/02/07 are:
Women:
- Connelly, Mary Ann – Grand Island
- Cuellar, Elizabeth –
McCook
- Donahue, Betty – McCook
- Jones, Cheryl – Doniphan
- Kreshel, Bonnie – Wilber
- Krolikowski, Joyce – Grand Island
- Martinez,
Laura – Minden
Continue to watch this newsletter for additional candidates.
Please pray for these candidates and those yet to be called.
Please encourage
candidates
to get their applications in ASAP.
From the Secretariat …
It’s
comforting to ‘see’ Cursillo in so many of the writings of the Church
and of
the saints. There were two very clear
instances of that this week (really more, but we’ll talk about two). First, on this week’s “The Journey Home” on
EWTN (Monday, August 13, 2007), Ralph Martin talks in depth about the
profound
effect that Cursillo had on his faith life.
Jeff Cavins (also from EWTN) has referred to Cursillo as “the
best kept
secret in the Catholic Church.” As
solidly Catholic and Christian as Cursillo is, why aren’t we who have
been
given the gift of a Three Day Weekend sharing it? The
second instance of seeing Cursillo so
clearly in the teachings of the Catholic Church (and what triggered the
thought
to write this) was the Magnificat meditation for today (August 17,
2007), which
was written by Monsignor Massimo Camisasca (a consultor to the Vatican
Congregation for Clergy). He writes:<>
“Above
all, hope is manifested in a faith-filled gaze upon our neighbors. The Church places the experience of being a
pilgrim in this pedagogical framework and teaches us to see all of life
as
walking ‘step by step’ behind the One who leads us.
“The
path is grueling, but the goal draws us in and the companionship of
other
people simplifies what would be much more tiresome were we to go it
alone. This is the fundamental step along
the road
that every day, every hour, and every moment mobilizes all people and
all
things: recognizing the grace of God in the people He places closest to
us. Gazing upon the face of the friend
who is further along the journey persuades us that the journey is
possible,
even for us, and this makes us hasten all the more.
Our vision becomes purer and our capacity to
see further down the road increases. It
is only then that we are able to see more clearly and our desire grows
in such
a way that what at first seemed quite exhausting is transformed into a
joyful
and agile pursuit nourished by the foretaste of what we experienced
when we
first set out at the beginning of our journey.”
This experience of being a
pilgrim … Cursillo is all
about being on pilgrimage … through this life to the next … that’s why
we’re
given a Pilgrim’s Guide on our
Three Day Weekend. Cursillo challenges us
to walk step by step
(and many times, we begin with baby steps) behind Him on Whom we count
… He
leads us, if we will follow. And yes,
the path is often grueling, but that’s why He gives us companions on
the
journey to keep us headed toward our Ideal … and we travel joyfully
because of
the love we share with our friends … we recognize the grace of God in
those He
places closest to us! We remind one
another that the journey IS possible … even for us … and we want to
keep on
keeping on. Our friends have made the
journey a joy … and hopefully, we are doing the same for them. Let’s invite others to join us … invite
someone to the upcoming Three Day Weekends in Doniphan … share His love
and
joy. NOW is the
best time to pray about AND invite candidates to
live a Three Day Weekend. Please ask our
Lord who He wants YOU to
invite to get to know Him on a deeper and more personal basis. De
Colores!!
Gentle
Reminder – In registering
candidates for the upcoming Weekends,
you should use the most recent application forms (dated 7/12/07;
the most
recent sponsor sheet, which is blue, is dated 12/15/06). Please note
that the registration fee is now $15 (older forms show a different
amount). Registration materials were
mailed to each of
the parishes in the Diocese in mid-July, so they should be available.
Precursillo
Thoughts: (Kathy
Rowell, Precursillo Chairperson)
Spend 3 Days and Nights with the Huskers
For the first 50 to register (meals
and
lodging included)
If
you saw this headline in the newspaper, would you begin calling
everyone you
know and try to get a group together to attend?
Would you want to share this special opportunity with your
family and
friends? Would you try to convince them
that this is a chance to get to know these “celebrities” on a personal
level? If they were not able to pay the
$15 registration fee, would you pay it for them?
Well,
guess what! A Three Day Cursillo Weekend
is an opportunity to spend three days and nights with Someone far more
important than the Husker football team … Jesus Christ.
This opportunity includes the chance to spend
three uninterrupted days getting to better know Him and understand His
plans
for our lives. Those fortunate enough to
have been “invited” will have the chance to spend time alone with Him,
to have
His undivided attention, and to leave with a relationship so special
that He
extends the invitation to “Call Me ANY time”.
It
is time to begin in earnest to invite and encourage your friends and
loved ones
to send in their registrations for the coming Weekends to be held at
St. Ann’s
Parish in Doniphan, NE (Men’s – September 20-23, 2007; Women’s –
October 4-7,
2007). If YOU do not extend the
invitation, will someone else? Or will
the opportunity be lost? Remember –
someone
cared enough to invite you – who is waiting for your invitation? De Colores!!
- Upcoming
Cursillo Weekends are scheduled for
Men’s – September 20 - 23, 2007
(St. Ann Parish, Doniphan,
NE)
Women’s – October 4 - 7, 2007
(St. Ann Parish, Doniphan,
NE)
The teams for
the Fall 2007
Weekends are:
Men’s:
Mark
Pribyl, Coordinator; Eldon Buster, John Fertig, and Jon
Junkin. Fr. Paul York, Spiritual Director;
Fr. Harlan
Waskowiak,
Assistant; John Springer, Palanca Coordinator; Fr. Mark Seiker,
Palanca Spiritual Director.
Women’s:
Kathy
Springer, Coordinator; Monica Buster, Kathy Rowell, and
Annette Wemhoff. Fr. Mark Seiker,
Spiritual Director; Fr. John
Keefe, Assistant; Cathie McKenzie, Palanca Coordinator; Fr. Chris
Goodwin,
Palanca Spiritual Director.
Men’s
– February 14 - 17, 2008 (St. John the
Baptist, Minden, NE)
Women’s – February 21 - 24 2008
(St. John the Baptist,
Minden, NE)
It’s
NEVER too
early or too late to be inviting and preparing
candidates!!
Palanca Letters … Personal Palanca
letters continue to be a very important
part of Cursillo. Letters from the sponsor and/or a spouse should
be
marked so they may be given to candidates during the Weekend. All other
personal Palanca letters will be sent home to be read/enjoyed during
the Fourth
Day when the candidates will be in special need of encouragement as
they return
to the world they left behind on Thursday evening. New
cursillistas continue to comment that
these letters are particularly helpful following the Weekend, as they
return to
their homes and workplaces missing the community they enjoyed on the
Weekend …
please keep them in your prayers …
Personal and general Palanca letters
(including posters) should be mailed to Mark Pribyl, PO Box 305,
Dorchester, NE
68343, or any Secretariat member, in time to arrive by the Wednesday
prior to
each Weekend (Sept. 19th for the Men’s; Oct. 3rd
for the
Women’s). Please do not
mail them to the parish.
The Lincoln Diocese Cursillo website will be kept
updated with the names of candidates as they are submitted. The current web address is:
www.gpcom.net/stpatrickschurch/cursillolincoln
- Suggestions
to Help Prepare a Witness for Ultreya … Included
with this newsletter is a blue sheet that has helpful information for
the person
giving the witness at an Ultreya in preparing his/her remarks. When the Ultreya Center Representative
invites a Fourth Dayer to give the witness, it would be helpful to also
give
that person a copy of this aid.
- Closings
for Fall Weekends … Please attend the Closings for the upcoming
(Fall)
Cursillo Weekends in Doniphan … remember how important it was for you
to be
greeted by the Fourth Day community … He
is counting on you (and so are the candidates … the new Fourth
Dayers)!!!
- Continue
to offer Palanca for Three Day
Weekends going
on throughout the world EACH WEEK,
knowing with certainty
that Palanca is the lever of apostles.
- Fall Region VI
Encounter … The
Fall Encounter is scheduled for September 28-30, 2007, at Savior of the
World,
Kansas City, KS. This is relatively
close for a Regional Encounter, so it would be good to spend time with
those
pilgrims who come from other areas. A
registration form is enclosed
[not yet available --
contact Mark Pribyl (see cover)] … God will reward you for all
the
time/energy/spirit that you allow Him to work with …
- School of Leaders (SOL)
...
You are invited
to come
together with cursillistas from across the Diocese to continue to
deepen your
understanding of our Lord and of the Cursillo Movement. ALL ARE
INVITED! In working and studying
and praying together, we discover ways of doing that to which our Lord
calls
each of us (not only in Cursillo, but more importantly, in our everyday
lives). The next SOL will be Nov. 9-10, 2007,
at Sacred Heart, Hebron. Nov. 2-3,
2007, at St. John the Baptist Parish in
Minden, NE (registration
form included in Newsletter). As
usual,
SOL begins on Friday evening with a
retreat phase (Mass, meditation, Confessions, and food/fellowship, but
not
dinner); and continues into Saturday (we are usually finished by about
3 p.m.
on Saturday afternoon). You will come
away with a deeper love for God and better know His love for you … ALL are invited to participate.
From the Spiritual Advisor
...
The Magnificat “Meditation of the Day” for
August 14,
the Memorial of St. Maximillian Mary Kolbe, was by St. Maximillian
Kolbe. It is a beautiful reflection on
growing in
humility.
There are many different views or understandings of
humility. Each of us would do well to
learn about humility from the Lord and from the saints who imitated Him.
I would encourage you to read the meditation in
relation to the three legs of the tripod: piety, study, and action. Reading the meditation in the spirit of piety
… perhaps as an examination of conscience … you might ask our Lord to
help you
(sometimes through others) to see yourself as He sees you.
Reading the meditation in the spirit of study,
you might use what it says to help “change your mentality to be more
Christian”
… to be more like Christ, who was meek and humble of heart. Reading the meditation in the spirit of
action, you might reflect on how and why you do the things that you do
… do you
do things for others to see, or for God (realizing that God is present
everywhere)? Is your work of
evangelization (action) only about “doing things”, or do you remember
to pray …
to pray to the Lord for your neighbor?
“Be
recollected; whoever pours himself out on exterior things quickly loses
the
graces he has acquired. A full jewel box
is always kept closed. Humility: Avoid all
those words which can draw down on you glory, esteem, or the
appreciation of
others. Let us listen unwillingly
(without interest or reflection) and with interior reluctance to the
words of
those who praise or commend us. It is
dangerous to listen to one’s own praise in the mouths of others.
It makes one lose his good judgment. When others praise us let us
keep our sins
before our eyes. In this way we shall
judge ourselves unworthy of any commendation, and consequently we shall
find an
occasion for being ashamed of ourselves and for humbling
ourselves.
Rejoice when you hear others praised. Jealousy, attachment to
one’s own glory, is a
defect. Never do anything so that men
may see and esteem you. Never do
anything out of human respect. Do
everything perfectly, because you are working in God’s presence, for
God and
not for men. In every situation think
more about loving than about working.
Don’t offer excuses when you make a mistake. Don’t cast the blame
on others. Do not offend by sarcasm those who correct
you. Do not renounce in advance your
errors which someone is trying to point out to you. Practice for
a long time and with zeal until
you succeed in willing that your defects may not remain hidden any
longer, and
until you learn how to rejoice when the others judge you
imperfect.
Do this to make up for your errors. When you are reproved
unjustly, do not excuse
yourself. Cut short all thoughts of
pride … Willingly accept every
opportunity for humbling yourself. Don’t
be offended at a harsh word, an imperious tone of voice, not being
respected as
much as you would like to be. Welcome
occasions of being disregarded and humiliated, first with patience,
then
willingly, without raising any difficulties, and finally with
joy.
That will be perfect humility. Make acts of humility (as also of
the other
virtues on which you are interiorly examining yourself), beginning with
a
rather small number of them; then increase these continually, and make
more and
more progress. This, in fact, is how one
acquires a good habit and makes it grow strong.
Humility is the foundation of the virtues.” St. Maximilian
Kolbe.
Again, this makes a great examination of conscience
…
review how you are progressing in piety, study, and action. Remember to seek to imitate Christ … to put
on the mind of Christ … to imitate the saints in doing good … Christ is
counting on you and you must count on Him.
De Colores!! ……Fr. Mark Seiker
From the Lay
Director ...
50
Years of Cursillo in the U. S.
Yes,
it is hard to believe that Cursillo was introduced fifty years ago in
the
United States. I was blessed this year
to be able to attend the 17th National Encounter that was held in
Arlington,
Texas. Aside from the normal
schedule/itinerary for a National Encounter, we celebrated 50 years of
Cursillo
in the U. S. by making a pilgrimage on Sunday to Waco, Texas, which was
the
very site of the first Cursillo Weekend.
Our pilgrimage included visiting the church and grounds where
the team
and candidates lived the first Cursillo Weekend in the U. S. Those attending the National Encounter then
participated in the Closing for a Men’s Spanish Three Day Weekend that
was
being held that weekend. Several of the
candidates from the Weekend 50 years earlier witnessed to their
experiences and
explained how that, never in their wildest dreams, did they think that
the Cursillo
Movement would be what it is today.
The
witness of these veteran cursillistas was not unlike the witness of
those men
who were just finishing their Three Day Weekend … the newest Fourth
Dayers to
the Movement. During the Closing, the
new Fourth Dayers strongly reaffirmed the need for Cursillo to
persevere and
continue on, as it is so vital for us to grow spiritually
(Piety/Holiness), to
study so we can understand and defend our faith (Study/Formation), and
finally,
to tell all who will listen about the Good News that Christ died for us
and
loves us (Action/Evangelization).
Are
you studying your environments, searching for that person who might
benefit by
living a Cursillo? Have you talked to
God before talking to that person? Are
you asking God for courage and the proper words to speak in God’s time
to the
one the Spirit has put on your heart?
Remember
it only takes a spark to keep the fire burning, and when you shine from
the
light of Christ you don't want to hide that light.
May
the light of Christ shine through you upon others, that the love of
Christ
might inebriate all with whom you come into contact.
AMEN!!
De
Colores!! … Mark Pribyl
When God
asks ~~
“Whom shall I send?”
Respond:
“Here I am,
Lord!!
Send me …” (then go!!)
(Insert #1)
Registration Form
School of Leaders
Quarterly Reunion
November 2-3, 2007 Postponed
till the next week (see next line)
November 9-10, 2007
624 N Garber Ave 436
North 3rd Street
St. John the Baptist Church
- Minden,
NE Sacred Heart Parish, Hebron, NE
New participants are
ALWAYS
welcome ...
If you cannot be with us, we
request
Palanca for the success of the School.
Name: ________________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________________
City/State/Zip: _________________________________________________________
Phone:
Email: ______________________________________
Where and when did you make your Cursillo?
______________________________________________________
Are you able to receive the Sacraments of
Confession
& Holy Communion? Yes No
To which Organizations do you commit your
time?
__________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________________________
Are you living the follow-up program of
Group
Reunion? Yes No
Are you living the follow-up program of
Ultreya?
Yes No
Do you have any physical/medical/dietary
conditions
to be considered? __________________________________
________________________________________________________________________________________
Please Return this Form WITH PAYMENT
To:
Jon Junkin, 7820 Sandalwood Dr, Lincoln, NE
68510
BY November 7, October
31, 2007 (this allows us to plan for food).
[Suggested donation (if you are able) is $15.00
per
person to cover meals and a donation for facility usage.
Please make check payable to “Cursillo of Lincoln”
and mail with the Registration Form.]
SOL is the working arm of Cursillo … May God
us
your time/talent/treasure in SOL to do the work of Cursillo ... build
community
with other cursillistas ... spend time in prayer and meditation with
the
Blessed Sacrament. SOL is for ALL cursillistas ...
men
and women, couples, singles, priests and religious.
FRIDAY, NOV 9th 2nd (Retreat Phase
...
preparation for Saturday's SOL)
7:30pm
---
Registration (NO Meal Friday evening)
7:45pm
---
Mass
8:30pm
---
Meditation, confessions, quiet time
SATURDAY, NOV 10th 3rd (School of
Leaders
Agenda)
7:00am
---
Morning prayer and Mass, followed by
breakfast
8:30am
- 3:00pm Group Reunion, Intro, 2-3 Sessions and Lunch
3:00pm
---
Clean up and Depart (Supper not provided)
Please bring the following with you to the
SOL:
- Pilgrim’s Guide
- If you have the following:
- Leader’s Manual (please begin
praying the
Leader’s Prayer on page 57)
- Technique Talks will come from the Fundamentals of
Christianity
Chapters 15-16 (the book, by Fr. Frank Salmani, is available for $10.00
at SOL)
- Doctrinal Talks will come from the Vatican II Document Ad
Gentes [On the
Mission Activity of the Church, 12/07/1965] down load at:
- http://www.vatican.va/archive/hist_councils/ii_vatican_council/documents/vat-ii_const_19651207_ad-gentes_en.html
- "Classic” Cursillo accommodations
will
be
available
... no showers
- Advance registrations are requested;
it is
fine
to attend Saturday only (SOL) or Friday only (Retreat Phase)
- Suggested donation (if you are able)
for
the weekend
is $15.00 per person. Please make check payable to “Cursillo of
Lincoln”
and mail with the Registration Form.
- Please keep this half of the
flyer
for
future
reference.
Please bring a snack to share, if you
like.
(Insert #2)
Guidelines
for Helping to Prepare a Witness for an Ultreya
The
witness given at an Ultreya should be given by a layperson, and should
last
approximately 10 minutes (15 at the absolute maximum).
It should reveal what attempts the speaker is
making to bring about the Christian transformation of one of the
environments
in which that person finds him/herself.
The witness should awaken a desire among all of the participants
to
renew their own efforts at evangelizing their environments.
The
witness should not be purely an instructional session; in other words,
it
should encourage by personal example, rather than by theory. The purpose of the witness is for the speaker
to share about his/her growth in living union with Christ in order to
encourage
the rest of the group to go and do likewise.
There
are various types of witness that can be given at an Ultreya. It is good to vary the types of witness in
order to provide cursillistas with new ideas/strategies that might be
useful to
try in their own environments (there’s no sense in re-inventing the
wheel). The speaker should offer
concrete examples of how to live what is fundamental for being a
Christian in
family, neighborhood, workplace, and/or with friends.
The
speaker should present a lived experience
… as in all Cursillo rollos, a truth is presented, followed by personal
examples from the life of the speaker. A
recent example from the speaker’s life should be given to demonstrate
the
validity of the “truth” in a concrete way.
Preparation of the witness should begin with prayer, Palanca,
and
discernment regarding what to share; the result will be a natural,
sincere, and
personal witness that expresses how God is working in the speaker’s
life. Scripture might be helpful in tying
the
speaker’s experiences to the truth being presented.
The
witness should be a personal sharing of one’s:
·
Growing union
with Christ,
·
Growing knowledge
of Christ, or
·
Bringing others
to know Christ, or the changing of circumstances so that Christ is
better
known, loved and served.
The
speaker should keep the witness short, simple, and enthusiastic. The witness should generally not be: (1)
simply an attempt to portray an emotional high (in other words, it
shouldn’t be
all about feelings); (2) a tale of an extraordinary event (people can
better
relate to God working in the ordinary circumstances of life); (3)
irrelevant to
life (keep it down to earth); (4) propaganda for his/her own favorite
cause or
organization; or (5) an outpouring of personal troubles that ends in a
call for
help.
Those
who live close to God will reflect Him, and others can grow from what
they
share. A person cannot share what he/she
does not have, so it is important that those who give the witness do so
because
of the testimony of their lives, and not because it is their turn, or
because
there wasn’t anyone else to witness.
There
are two types of witness (depending on the speaker and the life
experiences of
that speaker), and it is good to have both types in Ultreyas throughout
the
year. One type of witness is generally
given by newer cursillistas. This type
of witness usually focuses on where the speaker is now, how he/she got
there,
and the joy/sorrow experienced along the way.
A second type of witness centers not so much on the life of the
cursillista before the Cursillo and how it helped, but rather on the
speaker’s
attempt in putting into practice and living what he/she experienced on
his/her
Cursillo. This type of witness is
generally given by a person who is striving to put into practice the
three elements
of the tripod: holiness (piety), formation (study), and evangelization
(action). The speaker’s witness will
likely focus on attempts the speaker has made to change one or more of
the
environments in which God has placed him/her (i.e., friends, relatives,
neighbors, etc.). Sometimes sharing
about how an apostolic attempt was not successful can be as helpful as
sharing
about an attempt that succeeded ... there can be growth from both.
Following
the witness, at least one cursillista (the respondent) should give a 2
or 3
minute comment about his/her views of what the speaker shared. The purpose of the response (sometimes
referred to as the “echo”) is not to criticize what the witness shared,
or to
try to explain it in a different way, or even to give another witness,
but
rather, the purpose is to “echo” (i.e., to communicate briefly and
precisely
how the respondent lives what the speaker shared).
The respondent should avoid giving an
additional witness, and should instead, focus his/her comments on what
the
speaker shared. It would be good for the
respondent to reflect on how the speaker’s words will help him/her in
better
living the Fourth Day.